New Year's Resolutions

Ok, I know it's a cliche'. So, sue me ! I've been thinking about this past year. A lot. Maybe I was able to pay better attention this year. An age thing ? Maybe. Mostly it's about loss I think. When people leave your life it affects you. When they die, it is particularly intense. We had a couple very difficult, yet enlightening, months when my Gramps died. There were others this year too, but he was special. I learned a good deal those two months. About life, death and myself.

So here are my resolutions:

Always consider : What does your heart say ?

LEAD with kindness in every situation.

REDUCE * RE-USE * RECYCLE

Clean out drawers & boxes ... it's time to let go.

And finally, and most importantly :

Quit expending so much time & energy on those who don't want or appreciate it. Life is far too short. Focus on the people who really matter.

Stop chasing ghosts.

Happy 2009 !